Depositions Tomorrow

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  • #626230
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    Two Time Winner
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    My hopefully at some time to be my ex wife is going to be deposed tomorrow. She wants to go to court rather than settle because her attorney cousin told her she would get more money that way. Court date is during first week of November.

    She has dished lots of dirt in the many filings, some real and some imagined. Still living in the residence and am able to avoid her most times. I work two jobs so I usually leave in the morning before she gets up. At night she is in bed when I get home. If I do see her she either ignores me and won’t speak or starts insulting me. I spend weekends elsewhere.

    This morning she was hanging around in the kitchen when it was time for me to leave for work. I told her good morning when I walked in the room. She replied “Good morning, sweetheart.” I thought she had slipped into an old term without thinking, so said nothing. Got my lunch and tea together to leave and told her “See you later”. She replied “See you, sweetheart”. I asked her “Why did you just call me sweetheart”. She replied “Why not”. I told her it was just unusual is all.

    I am concerned she has hatched some devious plot and will spring something new on me tomorrow.

    Any thoughts about the sudden change?

    TTW

    I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

    #626243
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    Monk
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    If you value your liberty – BODYCAM.

    #626245
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    Carnage
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    Runnnnn.

    Don’t go back home.

    She is gonna call the cops on you.

    DV accusation.

    You need a cover, back up and fast.

    It reminds me spiritRR history.

    You gonna end up in jail. If you go back home you need a recording device, video, withneses. NE CAREFULL. she is planing something.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #626247
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    Anonymous
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    omg you live with your ex? Jebus on the cross!

    umm what ever possible gain she would get will be eaten up by the attorney fees. what a moron. she could end up with less. judges are sometimes really arbitrary.

    she is being nice to you and getting ready to stab you. my c~~~ was the same way. she thinks she is going to pull something over on you. I’m guessing there will be a lie told, like I went to the doctor and I have a chronic condition requiring an expensive medication and treatment. I need money for that, your honor” and she will produce some official looking letter. Courts take this s~~~ at face value.

    be careful brother. she’s up to something.

    sweetheart my white hairy ass.

    #626252
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    Carnage
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    Read spirit history is the same pattern.

    All sociopath are similar.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #626265
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    PistolPete
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    OF course its a machination! You need to expunge her from YOUR space…for your own safety.

    #626281
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    FrostByte
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    Runnnnn.

    Don’t go back home.

    She is gonna call the cops on you.

    be careful brother. she’s up to something.

    OF course its a machination! You need to expunge her from YOUR space…for your own safety.

    That, That, That, and That…..
    At least put your phone on record

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #626309
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    TG
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    That would scare the s~~~ out of me. I’d throw out the lunch. She thinks she’s got you by the short hairs on something. Or the cops will be waiting for you when you get home.

    Order the good wine

    #626312
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    Two Time Winner
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    We have a camera system that covers all of the house except for the bedrooms. I do not interact with her unless I am in an area that is being recorded. Even then I keep my distance so she cannot be touched without her taking several steps toward me. It does video but not audio. Only another month of this I hope.

    I have another place lined out to live but my attorney says it is to my advantage to keep my residence in the marital residence.

    TTW

    I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

    #626320
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    TG
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    TTW:

    Do you think she’s crazy or vindictive enough to lie to the cops? Just how out of character was this? Was it said in a sarcastic manner, like she knows something you don’t know?

    You know her better than the rest of us. But it certainly sounds like she’s getting ready to make the ONE PHONE CALL.

    Order the good wine

    #626335
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    Anonymous
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    The one phone call, or the “Bobbitt” treatment. I would suggest sleeping with one eye open.

    When things have been cold and calculating with her demeanor towards you and then she gives, what sounds like endearment, she is mocking the situation. She has arrogance in the knowledge of something.

    A setup of some kind maybe?

    In the south, there is an expression “bless your heart”, and it is not meant as a compliment. It is said when someone thinks themselves superior in some respect. This sounds eerily similar to your situation.

    #626342
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    Two Time Winner
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    I put a lock on my bedroom door to keep her out when I am home and snooping in it when I am not. I live in the mid-south so I understand the “bless your heart” saying. I agree that your assessment is accurate, it seemed really strange to me based on her recent history of being a total bitch.

    Working on the NFG given attitude but can’t be that way if in jail. Will see what happens tomorrow, maybe it is time to move out. Meeting with my attorney prior to the deposition and will discuss my options with him.

    TTW

    I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

    #626363
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    Anonymous
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    If you move out it will be seen as abandonment. She would now have leverage rights to the property and anything within or on it.

    I would highly recommend a consultation with your attorney a.s.a.p. before making any decision.

    Document! Document! Document! Everything; her actions, words, and your possessions.

    Limit contact and conversation as much as possible. Give her no ammo to use against you.

    DO NOT lose your level head for any reason. She will try to goad you into a response. DO NOT fall for any of it.

    Bite your tongue and don’t clinch your fists. Be patient, for things will get better, but prepare for a temporary world of s~~~ in the meantime.

    #626489
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Yup. Something is up. Watch what you say, keep a recorder on, she is probably doing the same.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    I agree, I believe he is correct.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #626493
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    You need to be able to deadbolt your bedroom. And also search it for stuff she may have planted in there if she is planning to fake a phone call to the cops. Always keep that room locked if you are not in it.

    We are not s~~~ting about the seriousness of what could occur because AWALT and many men have had it happen to them.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #626571
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    Anonymous
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    Go home only long enough to shower and change. She is up to something and it will not be good for you.

    #626717
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    Chase Pesos
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    Disgusting how those sub rats can lay up in a place where they don’t want to be or they aren’t wanted.

    I hope and pray that this blows up in face and she ends up with nothing.

    We’re here for you in either event.

    Chase a check, never chase a chick...

    #626790
    Doc
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    Covert record EVERY INTERACTION.

    And if you do leave record a visual record of the house interior and exterior.

    Tell her it’s a project you are working on.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #626909
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    RedDawn
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    She’s being snide, she’s sitting with her poker cards, thinking she’s going to win. Probably in the short term, unlikely in the long term.

    Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

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