Hello from the UK

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  • #661689
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    Fightingman
    Fightingman
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    Greetings from Blighty!

    My story is simple and reminiscent of many on here. Divorced about 12 years ago, after 20 years of marriage. She got everything as is the norm, and i mean everything!! She did the usual woman thing, irregular access to the kids then no access at all. Used child support agency as a stick to hit me with for years…..usual s~~~ really. Here in the UK when it comes to divorce, child support etc t~~~ win prizes.
    I basically have been going my own way since then. I have had a few relationships but due to the psychological damage done from the above i find it almost impossible to get emotionally attached to anything. This is useful, self protection is paramount. I have been accused of having a black heart, stone heart, no heart, no soul and of being ruthless.
    My life is simple i own nothing, still, save for this laptop and a motorcycle. No car either. Most guys seem to get hung up on the material s~~~ they lose in separation and divorce. Its not worth the effort, its all replaceable, even the bitch can be replaced if that’s what you want.
    I used to write on a couple of websites about access to kids after divorce and how to effectively deal with the child support agency to the point i was interviewed on BBC radio Sussex some years ago. I am and always will be militant.
    If your wondering, i don’t hate women, at best apathy but mainly contempt i suppose. I had my years of hatred. Hate is a very misunderstood concept, its an energy and any energy can be used for good. Mine lead to apathy. It was one of my most creative periods of my life and one where i grew from low self esteem, confidence and defeat into success. So use it wisely and go achieve.
    I like my life because i am free, and i mean free. No debt, no ties, no nothing. Of course i have needs, don’t we all? I am lucky at 50 i look 40, and i use it. I always let them come to me, that way its their choice, their doing. I always put my cards on the table, no lies no deceit. Hence being perceived as ruthless and yes i suppose i am. For my sins i am not pc at all and am brutally honest but then i am a brutal realist. I need hard facts to work with. For example my mother died recently in tragic circumstances. Yes she died she did not pass she f~~~ing died. People kept saying ” sorry to hear your mother passed”. Response was “what did she pass? did she pass wind or water? No she f~~~ing died didn’t she?”
    This is how to accept things and helps one move forward. Not dressing s~~~ up with flouncy beating round the bushes bulls~~~.
    I don’t believe in love, its a theoretical concept i.e science can’t prove it. Its subjective in its meaning, what it is to one person its something to someone else. You’ll find bike saddles are subjective too, what fits my arse may not fit yours. Its a meaningless word banded around and used to manipulate and paper over cracks.
    As i mentioned i have been going my own way for over a decade now and have no intention of stopping. I found being selfish helps, but also being brutally honest with myself too. I don’t f~~~ around i do it. A friend of mine got turned over by his ex and pretty much summed them up when he said ” f~~~ing women, they are all snakes with t~~~”.

    #661696
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    Blade
    blade
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    Welcome bro to the site , enjoy .

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #661699
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    Bstoff
    bstoff
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    Welcome aboard.
    I hope you contribute to the conversation frequently.

    #661721
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    Anonymous
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    Welcome, from a fellow Brit.

    I basically have been going my own way since then. I have had a few relationships but due to the psychological damage done from the above i find it almost impossible to get emotionally attached to anything. This is useful, self protection is paramount. I have been accused of having a black heart, stone heart, no heart, no soul and of being ruthless.
    My life is simple i own nothing, still, save for this laptop and a motorcycle. No car either. Most guys seem to get hung up on the material s~~~ they lose in separation and divorce. Its not worth the effort, its all replaceable, even the bitch can be replaced if that’s what you want.

    It is about self-protection. The blue pill world teaches you this self-protection is erroneous and that you’ll never be happy if you remain closed off. Bulls~~~. They would have you repeating the same mistakes over and over and at the end of your life they would still say there’s no proof that AWALT, or there would simply be ‘crickets’. That’s the price we’d pay for living in someone else’s emotional-based reality – a life wasted.

    While it’s probably not good to close off every part of you to the outside world, controlling who has access to your heart is a literal survival strategy for men. At the end of the day these weemins do not understand the damage they cause to men. They are too solipsistic and view us as automatons anyway.

    Straight up and cards on the table, I am trying to be more like that.

    Good intro mate.

    #661754
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    Revista
    revista
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    Welcome brother,im from the midlands in england.you seem switched on.i look young for my age too.im 48.used it to my advantage but now ive gone monk.still have the urge but not bothering anymore.and feel better for it but its each to there own on here.all the best mate.

    #661757
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    Bastisimo1
    Bastisimo1
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    Hi Fightingman

    Welcome from a fellow Sussex man

    – do you have a link for the BBC Sussex interview you did, would be good to hear

    And men are deploying the most devastating weapon of all – indifference. In this final battle who cares least wins.

    #661758
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    JVB
    JVB
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    Alrightyee mate!! Welcome and you are amongst friends. Look forward to your input bro. Beers are in Carnage’s fridge.

    Peace is > piece.

    #661763
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    Anonymous
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    Welcome home, Fighting man
    Beer’s in the fridge

    #661775
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    Atton
    Atton
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    You sure do live up to your name.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #661779
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    Anonymous
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    I have been accused of having a black heart, stone heart, no heart, no soul and of being ruthless.

    That happens to any man that drinks the bitter fruits of feminism poured from the chalice of gynocentrism. I bet you and I would get along like best friends.

    I am and always will be militant.

    Definitely BEST FRIENDS!

    As i mentioned i have been going my own way for over a decade now and have no intention of stopping.

    I felt that way after my 1st decade GMOW and now on my 2nd decade the feeling is even stronger! I will never touch another female again, they’re poison.

    You’re not alone many men are turning away from the plantation never to return.

    There’s no hope in women, only defeat. Why bother?

    #661782
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    Coolbreeze
    Coolbreeze
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    I like this guy.

    #661788
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    Jack Harper
    Jack Harper
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    Welcome

    #661809
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    The Manipulated Man
    The Manipulated Man
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    Greetings FM,

    Appreciate your Introduction and the replies it has generated.

    ….I have been accused of having a black heart, stone heart, no heart, no soul and of being ruthless.

    Me too.

    It is “Catnip” and a two edged sword.

    On the one hand, we can get “more pussy than a University toilet seat.”

    On the other hand, a women will shred a man’s great Soul along with his bank account, heart, and time.

    Here are a couple links that are my “Field Reports” which also summarize some of the Lessons Learned from my marriage and the succeeding RelationS~~~S. Your feedback in those Posts is appreciated:

    /forums/topic/an-honest-love-letter/

    /forums/topic/hard-earned-strategies-used-while-engaging-the-girlfriend-option/

    Blue Pill indoctrination begins at birth with male genital mutilation and continues throughout a man’s whole life.
    The vile brainwashing of the “C~~~ocracy” permeates every aspect of our culture.

    None of us are perfect on this web site.
    However, Natural Born MGTOWs who have been immune to the charms of women their whole lives come close.
    Thanks to my brother and my mentor, who are Natural Born MGTOWS, I understand that it is possible that there are biological anomalies of Heterosexual Men who are fully immune to women’s manipulation, s~~~ tests, and relentless requests.
    And they are naturally immune to the Blue Pill doctrine that all men are subjected to.

    Natural Born MGTOWS are the real “Unicorns.”
    It is their shining example that we try to emulate.
    Most of us writing on this web site have obtained MGTOW wisdom the hard way and had “Trials by Fire.”

    Not that you need it, your MGTOW wisdom is outstanding, but here is a link to help newcomers avoid any problems they may have on this web site. Your feedback there is appreciated:

    List of unacceptable Blue Pill Baggage

    ….A friend of mine got turned over by his ex and pretty much summed them up when he said: “f~~~ing women, they are all snakes with t~~~”.

    Amen Brother!

    Here is a link that discusses modern womyn. Your feedback there is appreciated:

    Today’s Womyn are like Wild Boars (Razerbacks)

    What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

    #661826
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    Doc
    Doc
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    Welcome to your new home.
    Great intro.
    Get posting brother.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #661828
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    Tim941
    Tim941
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    A friend of mine got turned over by his ex and pretty much summed them up when he said, “F~~~ing women, they are all snakes with t~~~.”

    Ever notice females in porn frequently draw air making a hissing sound as though THAT is supposed to be sexy? I find it hugely annoying. I could direct porn far better than most who are working cameras and microphones in recent months, years, and decades based on my extensive study of the greater body of free sex media (no-budget analysis).

    Greetings! I join with the “brothers” in thanking you for sharing a piece of your story. Please sincerely forgive my stupidity, but I still don’t understand. A male going his own way would not normally be likely to share on a forum. I’m grateful MGTOW do this and I take comfort in it but it’s a puzzle to me. If we’re going our own ways, why do we need other males to bond with in this way to share our different tales on how females have hurt us and got away with it?

    Are we angry with nature’s powerful drive for our species to survive and thrive being a nearly irresistible force? All a female has to do is show up and some dick will arrive for her to f~~~—pay her tab. Males are mostly (>80%) denied (Pareto distribution) sex?

    #661839
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    Anonymous
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    Thank you for post.I am not as obvious in being militant as some. My method is subtle disregard.
    Men who go their own way need signposts which is why I read & contribute to MGTOW.
    I hope you continue to contribute & once again Thank you

    #661879
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    Anonymous
    20

    Not dressing s~~~ up with flouncy beating round the bushes bulls~~~.

    I can see myself giving you many more +1’s in the future.

    #661894
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    Fightingman
    Fightingman
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    Fellas thanks indeed for such a warm welcome!!
    Bastisimo1 the interview was on the Danny Pike show back in 2012ish if i recall. Have a look it might be still available? Have a look at csa hell. I used to write on there. I think my name was kick boxer on there. Also cm options website i put s~~~ on there years ago. Had loads of comments deleted or disallowed.
    Tim941 People bond for all sorts of reasons we are naturally a social species. I don’t think its about how anyone has hurt us, its about sharing and understanding. We all need to vent at times if we don’t we explode and this is a great platform to do that. You can share here without anything with t~~~ berating you. A good maxim for life if you have been wronged is “remember and move on”.
    Newly separated?? Let the c~~~ have what it wants, pay fairly for any kids you have. If it won’t let you see the kids keep a diary, write an autobiography. I did. Remember even adopted kids want to seek out their real parents at sometime. Start doing for yourself. Don’t drown your sorrows, look after yourself, think before you act. You have a say in your life, its yours use it!

    #661933
    Tim941
    Tim941
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    . . . its about sharing and understanding. We all need to vent at times; if we don’t we explode and this is a great platform to do that. You can share here without anything with t~~~ berating you.

    Thank you for articulating that, Fightingman. And man alive! T~~~ seem to love jumping into berating males as frequently as possible. Now we have the “me too” movement.

    I fully agree with your answer to my question on the likelihood of this forum. We can’t know each other very well here—this is all written. And our joint venting this way is entered into the public record and out in the open. I think I have yet to pay my dues and process the stories of many other MGTOW fellas before I would feel comfortable injecting my experiences.

    That said, I seem to have had it easier in life and now at age 60 than many and perhaps most MGTOW. I never sired a child but for four years was de facto step-father to a girl for her 7th to 10th grades, who became a grade-school teacher herself for 15 years before she tragically died a couple years ago survived by her son now in 1st grade. I filed divorce from her mother for $500 in 1994 and there was nothing more required of me. She and I are still fast friends with benefits—we have open relationships; on the subject of introductions. This is my reference frame.

    #661935
    Chase Pesos
    Chase Pesos
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    Welcome, thanks for the intro. I got a lot from it and look forward to learning more from you. Only fools don’t take advice from more seasoned folks who have their minds right.

    Chase a check, never chase a chick...

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