I still care about her

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  • #735729
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    Wyr
    wyr
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    Just woke up from a nightmare. The life of my ex had fallen apart and I was worried about her. I woke up and I’m still worried about her.

    I’m surprised to realize I still care about her. I’ve tried to push her out of my mind and convince myself that I don’t care. I guess I’ve been deluding myself to soften the pain in order to move on with my life.

    I’m monk and I’ve never been happier. I don’t want her back or anyone else.

    Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

    #735738
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    Anonymous
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    She doesn’t care about you.

    Do not expend emotional energy on someone that doesn’t care if you live or die.

    The person you actually care about is the ‘construct’ you have of her in your head.

    Dismantle the construct.

    #735740
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    Freeman_K
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    I think this is normal, I also have nightmares here and there about toxic BPD bitches from the past. It takes time to remove their poison from your system.

    The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

    #735741
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    DorkShit
    DorkShit
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    Choke yourself!

    Until you shut the door, you can’t look forward.

    YOU are facing the wrong direction.

    You are facing the chasm. You are standing on a ledge.

    Crime scene two will be worse than crime scene one was.

    That’s all I got about this crazy.

    Peace brothers

    #735743
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    Romulus
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    Don’t even think about swimming that emotional ocean for someone that probably wouldn’t step through a puddle for you.

    How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

    #735746
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    Awakened
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    USE your Red Pill Logic to CONTROL Your Blue Pill Emotional Programming.

    Whatever You Do, DON’T Contact Her.

    Stay Away, YOU’RE in a WEAKENED State and Vulnerable.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #735747
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    Anonymous
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    The person you care about ONLY exists in your head.

    There is the physical creature.

    Then there is the overlay YOU put on top of the creature.

    Take off the creature’s mask.

    #735750
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    SH3LLZ
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    Its tough sometimes. “Dont look back, you’re not going in that direction”

    #ICETHEMOUT
    #MANOUT!

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

    #735752
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    Carnage
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    Why do you care?

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #735754
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    Anonymous
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    The only reason I care about my ex, and this is dodgy at best, is she continues to hold my children hostage/responsible for taking care of my children. Yes, the same children who told me to go away. I care about my children. My fight is not with my kids. I know they were made to say the things they said. They had to go along to get along.

    I have seen some signs that my ex’s life is starting to come apart. The debt she ran up during the divorce and some large purchases and expenses are taking their toll. Raising two teenage daughters are constant hammer blows, and the expenses will continue to go up. Older daughter college costs $80,000 a year. Younger daughter will want to go to college, too.

    As hard as my life has been in the past 8 years, I know my life will get better. As good as her life has been in the past 8 years, I know things will get worse for her. Rising kids’ expenses, the wall and her own inherent mental instability will cause her to implode. Economic revenge is best revenge.

    She will fall apart, and try to blame me. I was removed in 2009, and live 500 miles away living with a no contact order. I wanted a cheap, quick, easy divorce, not a 6 year s~~~show of weekly court visits. Not my fault, honey, you wanted one more ride on the c~~~ carousel. Good luck with that.

    #735760
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    It'sallbs
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    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

    #735765
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    Anonymous
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    That dream is like heartburn, It comes back later!

    Shake it off!

    #735768
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    Wyr
    wyr
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    Why do you care?

    IDK I just do. Don’t worry, I have no interest in contacting her or ever seeing her again. I don’t miss being in a relations~~~. I know she doesn’t really care about me and the person I care about is some model I created in my own head.

    Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

    #735771
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    Wyr
    wyr
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    She doesn’t care about you.

    Do not expend emotional energy on someone that doesn’t care if you live or die.

    The person you actually care about is the ‘construct’ you have of her in your head.

    Dismantle the construct.

    This is the case. I just thought I’d already done this, so it took me by surprise. I guess I need more time or need to work on it more.

    Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

    #735782
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    Anonymous
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    Dreams are your brains way of sorting info out.
    It helps you move forward.

    ( are they buying it? Haha)

    #735789
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    Carnage
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    Why do you care?

    IDK I just do. Don’t worry, I have no interest in contacting her or ever seeing her again. I don’t miss being in a relations~~~. I know she doesn’t really care about me and the person I care about is some model I created in my own head.

    Then why do you care?

    You want to care, you feel compelled to care, you are just that delusional, STOP CARING, you know the truth, but your brain tricks you.

    Evolve, get rid of all those foolish things that we think make us human, humans are inteligent and logical, monkeys are all about impulse and nature, that’s pretty close to feelings, stop being a monkey.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #735791
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    OldBill
    OldBill
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    IDK I just do.

    You damn well better figure out why before it f~~~s you up.

    As Matrix said, you doesn’t give a f~~~ about you. However, if you’re still carrying some sort of torch and she comes looking for resources, you could very well end up screwing yourself over again.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #735801
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    Ranger One
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    Several months ago, I had a dream that my ex got run over by a bus and I cut myself shaving because I couldn’t get that s~~~ eating grin off of my face before I started shaving.

    That’s one reason why I’m not fond of emotions; they are distractions.

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    #735804
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    Ranger One
    Ranger One
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    Just woke up from a nightmare. The life of my ex had fallen apart and I was worried about her. I woke up and I’m still worried about her.

    I’m surprised to realize I still care about her. I’ve tried to push her out of my mind and convince myself that I don’t care. I guess I’ve been deluding myself to soften the pain in order to move on with my life.

    I’m monk and I’ve never been happier. I don’t want her back or anyone else.

    Just picture her with her Chad’s cum spilling out of her mouth. That helped with me giving a crap.

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    #735812
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    Kage
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    You should work to become indifferent to her. It’s hard at first because men are the more caring of the two genders, but brother once you start digging and thinking back…you’ll realized it was all a scam. She never loved you. The best response to such a creature is to become indifferent…to whether they live or die. Much how you would feel throwing a tissue out after use…do you continue to think about it? It’ll come with time bro.

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