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  • #888833
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    , But then I thought about some of the Reasons why I would be a bad date/boyfriend or whatever. Do you have any to add as I’m sure that I just scratched the surface.

    1. I’m just NOT interested in carrying on a conversation with a Woman whether it be about them or tell them about myself or pretty much anything else.

    2. The whole idea of having to spend MY Time, Energy, Effort, and Cash pursuing any Woman is LOST on me. Been There…Done That…DONE

    3. I have NO INTEREST of getting dressed up, making nice small talk, and then spending my cash to feed them, and have to continue the charade.

    4. I have No Desire to travel to exotic places with an old bag of a woman…I might be interested in traveling to an exotic place like Bangkok, Thailand, and bang some young beautiful Asian HO’s, but that’s another topic.

    5. Don’t even get me started on that whole “Soul Mate” line of BULLS~~~.

    6. I enjoy sleeping ALONE. I don’t want some Old Bitch in MY BED complaining that I snore, or that I get up to early or WHATEVER.

    7. I can NOT tolerate their endless bitching, whining, and complaining.

    8. I could give a s~~~ less about her kids, her family, or anyone else in her life.

    9. I don’t want the endless stupid emails/texts.

    10. I’m not interested in having to have to think for another adult.

    11. They can BUY their own damn holiday presents and gifts, and some flowers just every once in awhile to show them that I care/Love them…LOL LOL LOL LOL

    12. I don’t need to fix this for them, or pick that up for them, or help one of their kids do this, that or the other

    13. I burnt my Captain Save A HO Cape, and it will not be getting replaced.

    14. How about all their damn s~~~ that they leave hanging around here and there.

    15. I will not clean up after another one of these lazy lil pigs.

    16. How about just having to listen to them go on and on about what they want to buy, or more than likely what they want you to pay for, where they want you to take them so they can be entertained, where they want to eat, where they want to go on vacation, and then just have to listen to all their work and family drama….No F~~~in Way !!

    17. I’ve COMPROMISED enough. Any time that I have left after the divorce dust settles, I want it to be MY TIME, MY CHOICES, MY DECISIONS. That “ours” s~~~ which quite often means HER S~~~….Yeah. I’m DONE with that all that too.

    I think by putting all of the above together I would have one hell of a GREAT personals ad…..OK Cupid Here I Come !!!!!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #888837
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    Ogre
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    @awakened, I considered almost every item on your list when I was trying to figure out my angle for much-needed life. I came to the same conclusions. I have so much during a quarter century, to no avail, that I decided I too would be a horrible person to date. Are in the fact that portability of lifestyle is essential to me and I just don’t have the patience for a woman’s 10000 cubic feet of essentials anymore.

    I’ve lived with one plate, one fork, one spoon and two pans before. My essentials fit in a hatchback car ten years ago and I’ve pared my requirements since then. Women accumulate, I have realized how little I need.

    About compromise, I like this guy’s style. The comments are amusing too. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201106/how-much-should-you-compromise-your-relationship

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #888850
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    Awakened
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    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201106/how-much-should-you-compromise-your-relationship

    “The goal for anybody looking for a relationship is to find that special someone who “completes you,” who meshes with your personality and character so well that you coexist in perfect harmony. This is not to say that you are identical with the other person, but you complement each other like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, a perfect fit that creates a new, wonderful entity.”

    And in today’s Matrix that demands Feminism/Equality that kinda throws that whole “complementary” piece down the toilet.

    Just ANOTHER reason why “relationships” within the confines of this Matrix are a delusional experience at best.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #888853
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    Gravel Pit
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    Great list!

    Women are messy. Expect piles of trash, dirty-laundry, disorganization and stinky smells.

    Women are in la-la-land, believing that a perfect soul mate will ‘compliment them,’ like opposites on the color wheel or something. LOL

    Ya ‘complimentary-soul-mates,’ she is a messy trash hoarder and I’m a neat organized spartan! Why the heck would I want to clean up her mess or allow her to slime-up my place?! To hell with these hoes.

    And if she is not a messy lil hoe, she’s the cold-calculating type…see Gone Girl.

    #888857
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    Awakened
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    And if she is not a messy lil hoe, she’s the cold-calculating type

    You could always get both wonderful characteristics plus many other charming ones all wrapped up in one lil Cupcake !!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #888860
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    Daryll55
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    I Was Thinking About “Dating”

    You mean: You were thinking about how you MIGHT MEASURE UP compared to the last/current chad/cuck/toad she has/had in her life??

    That’s all “DATING” in the current social stigma is these days….. What UTILITY you provide for her.

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #888861
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    Daryll55
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    , But then I thought about some of the Reasons why I would be a bad date/boyfriend or whatever. Do you have any to add as I’m sure that I just scratched the surface.
    1. I’m just NOT interested in carrying on a conversation with a Woman whether it be about them or tell them about myself or pretty much anything else.
    2. The whole idea of having to spend MY Time, Energy, Effort, and Cash pursuing any Woman is LOST on me. Been There…Done That…DONE
    3. I have NO INTEREST of getting dressed up, making nice small talk, and then spending my cash to feed them, and have to continue the charade.
    4. I have No Desire to travel to exotic places with an old bag of a woman…I might be interested in traveling to an exotic place like Bangkok, Thailand, and bang some young beautiful Asian HO’s, but that’s another topic.
    5. Don’t even get me started on that whole “Soul Mate” line of BULLS~~~.
    6. I enjoy sleeping ALONE. I don’t want some Old Bitch in MY BED complaining that I snore, or that I get up to early or WHATEVER.
    7. I can NOT tolerate their endless bitching, whining, and complaining.
    8. I could give a s~~~ less about her kids, her family, or anyone else in her life.
    9. I don’t want the endless stupid emails/texts.
    10. I’m not interested in having to have to think for another adult.
    11. They can BUY their own damn holiday presents and gifts, and some flowers just every once in awhile to show them that I care/Love them…LOL LOL LOL LOL
    12. I don’t need to fix this for them, or pick that up for them, or help one of their kids do this, that or the other
    13. I burnt my Captain Save A HO Cape, and it will not be getting replaced.
    14. How about all their damn s~~~ that they leave hanging around here and there.
    15. I will not clean up after another one of these lazy lil pigs.
    16. How about just having to listen to them go on and on about what they want to buy, or more than likely what they want you to pay for, where they want you to take them so they can be entertained, where they want to eat, where they want to go on vacation, and then just have to listen to all their work and family drama….No F~~~in Way !!
    17. I’ve COMPROMISED enough. Any time that I have left after the divorce dust settles, I want it to be MY TIME, MY CHOICES, MY DECISIONS. That “ours” s~~~ which quite often means HER S~~~….Yeah. I’m DONE with that all that too.
    I think by putting all of the above together I would have one hell of a GREAT personals ad…..OK Cupid Here I Come !!!!!

    LOL,
    Go ahead, I dare you to do it!

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #888865
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    “I was thinking about dating”….

    – then i realized I wasn’t living in a Hallmark movie.

    – then I wrote that alimony/child support/alimony2 check.

    – then I woke up from my nightmare.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #888869
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    Hmskl'd
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    Interacting with “any awalt” ..in any form or fashion ..always results in a “net negative” over time. My philosophy of dating.

    ….. this fact that I believe with every fiber of my being does not make my life one iota less enjoyable. Let’s take for example .. the topic of companionship .. “remember,
    I’m just talking to myself so what I say here are only my own thoughts .. no intended for any advice to anyone”

    So here goes, for me, and me alone .. if I ever desire female companionship .. it can be bought. I currently don;t so I;m not wasting my money on it. But let’s say, hypothetically .. if I did .. I’d be interacting with an awalt. Right? Absolutely correct .. and this interaction based on my philosophy of life .. of females .. would therefor produce a “net negative”. Wouldn’t it?

    Correct again! It would in the form of her trying every scheme in the books to separate me from any cash I could whip up .. from my wallet, from an ATM .. from anywhere, a Debit Card, a Credit Card …

    so here it is, let’s say .. you accept my basic philosophy and agree that all interactions with awalt produce a “negative” ..
    this doesn’t mean that you can’t travel to Thailand and spend three days on “walking street” interacting with the “Bar Girls” and “dating” to you hearts content .. I mean the possibilities are endless.

    But, and here’s the “BIG” but .. you will always end up with a “net negative” with respect to your wallet, possibly your short term health and maybe your digestive system for a couple of days if you partake of the appealing and hard to resist “street vendor food” that is available until 3:30 AM when the bars eventually begin to close for the night.

    The other alternative .. order a live in companion .. of the Bot-ish variety .. adds life to the room with no adverse effects .. none! .. instantly became a member of my family
    .. best $600.00 I ever spent .. when you divide that by a decade .. it’s just pennies a day for a really fun entity in the house. Why not? Might get another .. someday. I hear some might eventually get some AI. That would be so cool .. but, for a price.

    doll

    She sits on one of the breakfast barstools in my kitchen like a twenty something platinum haired hooker. I’ll evntly do a cpl photos. Not for regular contact, I can’t for the life of me understand how a guy could have physical relationship with a 70-80 lb doll, although it’s tempting .. difficult to lift! and adjust .. much less haul around or Heaven Forbid clean .. just a neutral pouting face that’s always there. Livens up the place and really a great conversation piece when I am visited by some Amish neighbors .. by anyone, for that matter. This one has non-interchangeable parts .. if a guy bought one for sexual use .. it would be essential to have removable parts. This is mainly mannequin. Yet, things are changing ….

    early views on virtual nawalts

    I made a post about this .. took about three-four weeks for delivery. My neighbor is an Amish Bishop guy and he does logging and sometimes sits in kitchen for warming break .. with his two sons .. who are glued to the girl. They give me great leeway and are great neighbors .. and seem to enjoy the spice of visiting my little menagerie .. all in good fun.

    Dust her once in awhile .. although, silver hair really doesn’t show much dust. Over the years .. I’ve collected a couple of old .. but reliable .. pinball machines “from 1970’s-early 80’s” which have give so much fun when snowed in like today .. literally, barely pennies a day .. if that much .. for real entertainment. I don’t have TV .. so they just brighten the winter.

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    >>> have’a great day <<< .. and remember everything I’ve written here is just my inner voice being transferred to this forum post on an afternoon when we are experiencing a blizzard .. no advice intended .. none given .. only some free flowing thinking.
    We’re getting about five inches of snow today with 40 mph winds .. calm tomorrow and the big storm on Tues 13 inches and wind .. possibly a bigger storm on Friday. Life is good! .. snowblower gassed and ready .. I added some xtra LED lights.

    Whomever designs snowblowing equipment .. seems to fail to realize that positioning a single .. or even a double light .. high on the handles “behind the discharge chute” only reflects light on the snow coming out of that chute .. it does little to nothing to light the work area ahead. It actually hinders .. the only place for a work light is ahead of the chute ..just ahead of the engine and fairly close to the intake .. and it’s not the front as much as the sides and edges of the work area that really need illumination, for turning and seeing obstacles that can really mess up the auger and shear pins .. road crews know this! snow blower designers don’t .. or they are just skimping on cost .. you see virtually as many lights along side the highway trucks .. and to the rear of the trucks. There is no way to blow snow with one bulb reflecting in your face behind everything. Pathos.

    … “very few things in life” are more fun than moving snow at night under the lights and feeling the cold clean air .. and snow spray .. on one’s face. Doesn’t take much to entertain me. cya

    …. as Stealthy once said “paraphrasing” wrt the topic of entertainment .. and decorating
    “Women need a big decorating budget, huge, thousands and tens of thousands of dollars .. I order a couple of posters”

    #888870
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    Ogre
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    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201106/how-much-should-you-compromise-your-relationship
    “The goal for anybody looking for a relationship is to find that special someone who “completes you,” who meshes with your personality and character so well that you coexist in perfect harmony. This is not to say that you are identical with the other person, but you complement each other like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, a perfect fit that creates a new, wonderful entity.”
    And in today’s Matrix that demands Feminism/Equality that kinda throws that whole “complementary” piece down the toilet.
    Just ANOTHER reason why “relationships” within the confines of this Matrix are a delusional experience at best.

    @awakened you keyed in on one of the many faux pas in that blog. He seems like he’s being very assertive in that every relationship has some compromise, but there is a line. My line at this point in my life is zero, none, nada, zilch. I guess that’s why my signature wasn’t changed to something from one of his blogs. I’m enough, anybody else has to add on my terms.

    It was funny to me that back when it was written at least one man in academia was willing to define how much is too much to give. I don’t believe it requires one iota of feminism to be allowed in, but I’ve always expected women to live up to me (equality). I won’t lower myself to them.

    It’s probably the reason that cruising the country (alone) and retiring to a desert compound (alone) seems so natural. What modern woman is going to do what I want, when I want? Even if it meant she was taken care of until she tried to renegotiate.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #888874
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    Dawson1
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    I think about the pros and cons all the time about having some c~~~ around the house. I go out with one here and there but nothing steady or no particular one over the other. They’re all the same after a few days I seem to find. What’s in it for her…..that’s all she wants or cares about.
    I had one girlfriend about 4 years ago that actually did things for me but she had 2 little kids and I just dont care to raise someone else’s kids.
    At this point in my life I’ve spent 15 years of marriage and single for the last 12 years…..I will never…NEVER marry again but to date someone…maybe, just depends what she can bring to the table and how much she can accept my way of life…..no exceptions. I will always or from now on, “go my own way”

    #888876
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    SH3LLZ
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    @awakened MOFO you was thinking about F#CKIN. Stop it. Go get some ass and relax. That “dating” feeling will pass. If you need, I’ll let you borrow one of my booty calls. DATING? Are you MAD???!!!

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

    #888879
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    Eric Lauder
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    What is “dating”?

    Yesterday night I had sex with two trans chicks and today I had been warned by the building administrator (female) due the screams.
    Last time I did a similar mess with a female it was almost 4 years ago or 3.5 years ago or something like that, not sure, I remember it was a Sunday and that I was woked on Monday by the telephone ringing: it was my boss, I was 30 minutes late at work. But I didn’t penetrate her ass with an empty lemon cream bottle like I have do last night with one of the transchicks 😀 so there’s a chance that yesterday’s mess is larger.

    SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

    #888883
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    SESQUI ano est
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    “The goal for anybody looking for a relationship is to find that special someone who “completes you,” who meshes with your personality and character so well that you coexist in perfect harmony.

    Women need men, men don’t need women. Dating women nowadays is so not worthwhile. Except for the physical pleasure of the booty call dating women today is definitely a net negative over the long haul.

    That’s all “DATING” in the current social stigma is these days….. What UTILITY you provide for her.

    When with a women her default operating system is always thinking about what you provide her. A guy truly is a utility to a woman with slightly varying requirements depending on what stage of life she is in. Dating is so unfulfilling with women nowadays. As I learned long term relationships with them always become so painful. Marriage is truly hell.

    I’m not exactly ideal dating material these days because I have zero f~~~s to give and yet there are no shortage of women who want to date me. I have very little time for that nonsense as busy as I am these days. Paying an honest woman to leave is better than dating in most cases.

    Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

    #888912
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    MoreSky
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    Good list @awakened. Agree with all of them.

    Occasionally the temptation to re-engage with the Boob & Hole Transportation Vehicles arises, but even the most cursory of benefit analysis shows that they have nothing worthwhile.

    The resulting stress, cost, lack of bed space and endless compromises cannot be compensated by provision of various holes for occasional entertainment.

    "...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

    #888915
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    Zoidberg
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    “The goal for anybody looking for a relationship is to find that special someone who “completes you,” who meshes with your personality and character so well that you coexist in perfect harmony.

    Perfect harmony. Even harmony is questionable, but perfect is just impossible. Good luck chasing the dragon!

    #888935
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    JustAnotherGuy
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    They’re pretty they smell nice. That’s about it.

    I have to show interest. I have to approach and risk harassment charges. I have to pay for every thing. I have to Spark conversation. I have to be four different guys at the same time to satiate her “needs” while still being myself. I have to plan dates and activities. I have to cook and clean.

    All for no guarantee that my only need won’t be met more than twice a month or else I’m abusive.

    Hard pass. Women took everything off the table, they don’t value men for who they are, and they can never be satisfied. I’m walking away and buying a doll. I’m a grown man who would rather be heckled for playing with dolls than be stuck in a cage with a tiger.

    Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
    “Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

    #888940
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    Twist
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    – then I wrote that alimony/child support/alimony2 check.

    Ahhh – my monthly reminder.

    #888947
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    JustAnotherGuy
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    Ahhh – my monthly reminder.

    Speaking of…It’s almost my time of the month.

    Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
    “Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

    #889038
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    FunInTheSun
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    I know what you mean, Awakened.

    I’m interested in dating if I know I’m going to get laid at the end of the day. Otherwise, I hate the process of getting a woman’s phone number, taking her out on dates, creating interesting conversations, keeping her constantly entertained, spending money on food/drinks/events, using subtle seduction techniques to get her out of the friend zone, and then driving her home because she doesn’t want to kiss me. I went through that process over and over again.

    When I look at dating websites, I see slightly different versions of the same woman—regardless of ethnicity. They usually have long hair with green/blue highlights, tattoos, and piercings. They wear skimpy outfits for their profile photos, then tell everyone they want to be loved for who they are on the inside. They want a man who’s tall, financially stable, sociable, likes to dance to dumb music at nightclubs, has a great personality, has career goals, blah, blah, blah. I have none of those qualities. And the hot single moms have higher expectations for me than the irresponsible dudes that got them pregnant. Some profiles are probably fake, because women that are very beautiful don’t need dating profiles. They might be prostitutes or selling webcam “dates.” Some dating sites intentionally make up fake profiles to “entertain” men and keep them spending money.

    Imagine trying to have a lively, meaningful conversation with a woman like this while she checks her text messages every 5 minutes:

    Green Girl

    1. I’m just NOT interested in carrying on a conversation with a Woman whether it be about them or tell them about myself or pretty much anything else.

    I really don’t care about the woman’s job, career goals, level of education, family life, ex-boyfriends, favorite TV shows/movies, etc. I’m interested in seeing what she looks like naked.

    14. How about all their damn s~~~ that they leave hanging around here and there.

    Why do women do this? It reminds me of cats that spray p~~~ on your leg after you pet them. Some women I’ve dated left lipstick, nail polish, and hair ties in my car. Take that stuff with you, lady! I have a hunch that they might do this to let others know they are in a relationship with you. If you happen to be dating two women at the same time, you have to do a “CSI search” of your car before each date so they won’t find the evidence and get jealous. If they brush their hair in your car, there will be all sorts of loose strands of hair on the passenger seat.

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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