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  • #932744
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    Bachelorlifestyle
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    I’m 36 no kids and looking for a better way of going about living. All relationships have failed. HELP ME OUT WITH ADVICE PLEASE.

    Me first

    #932747
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    Gravel Pit
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    Im 34 no kids. I never had anything that lasted more than a year.

    Not much can be offered for you. There are MILLIONS OF US! Hundreds of millions.

    I could explain to you exactly whats happening on a micro and macro level, sociologically, biologically and technologically. But that will not take away the pain of your loneliness or the anger at the era that we live in.

    If youre gonna continue the pursuit of female company, then my advice is easy does it, try not to cohabitate or share bank accounts. In fact, just expect it to be an OPEN relationship no matter what she says. Do NOT think like a romantic boy and believe that your lovey dovey feelings are reciprocal. They arent because she will turn on you and hurt your vulnerability BADLY.

    The sane thing to do, is to just ghost them all, pursue yourself and TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF. Get to know him. Nurture what makes him grow. Do not slide into substance abuse or depression. Avoid suffering, pursue happiness. Wet vagina access is not going to provide happiness.

    This is happening on a MACRO LEVEL. You are not alone, we are here.

    #932758
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    Bachelorlifestyle
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    Thanx bro! Extreme eye-opener💯

    Me first

    #932759
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    Bub
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    Work on you bro.
    Expand your mind, invest in your hobbies.
    Stay out of debt…

    “ Your freedom isn’t worth 10 minutes of sticky friction”.

    Without a gash draining your money resources and time, you can retire at 50 and enjoy life.

    Just rolling down the road

    #932760
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    Gravel Pit
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    There’s a lot of stuff going on that is causing hardship for men: legislatively, culturally, traditionally, biologically etc… but I want to illustrate ONE thing that has been particularly devastating for relationships in the last 10 years. It falls in the technology side of things. Dating Apps. Please read forward for an example on why this is VERY bad for our species.

    Imagine a room with 10 tables. On each table, is a different sort of meal, all 10 meals on 10 tables are nutritionally comparable, having a healthy ratio of protein, fiber, fat and fruit. Whether its chicken rice bowl or taco salad, all 10 tables are a decent choice for dinner.

    Then, a woman is allowed to go into the room each night and dine at ONE of the tables. Naturally, her choices are limited but she stays healthy because of whats on offer is nutritional and its a narrow variety of choice, all well to do.

    Now, Imagine a different room, this time with 2,000 tables. 1,960 of the tables have similar nutritional profiles; Rice & Beans, Pork Chop w/ veggies, even the occasional Steak Dinner. But over in the corner, a very small number of tables, the last 40, are tables with obscene nutritional compositions. We’re talking a table with nothing but chocolate silk pies, another tables that is Doritos & Cheese Dip, another table this is Skittles and Mountain Dew.

    Then, a woman is allowed to go into the room each night and dine at ONE of the tables.

    Now we have a society of FAT ASSES who always eat at those last 40 tables. And the 1960 other tables are neglected, forgotten and left to expire, of no fault of their own. Why? Because its UNNATURAL for women to be given access to limitless samples of men, where their evo-psych bias is allowed to play out to the nnth degree. For MILLIONS of years, average women had only average men to choose from, specifically the average men in women’s vicinity. But when you open up a digital realm where they can all chase after some oversexed alpha delusion, they all rat race for the mirage instead of settling for a HEALTHY nutritionally balanced relationship with men in their own league who frankly care for them more and will ensure their happiness.

    Under the current scheme, No one is happy, particularly women are the most unhappy of all because eating nothing but candy makes you fat and depressed. Their natural desires arent being satiated because they are not behaving naturally. Theyre in an UNNATURAL environment where theyre allowed to do stuff that is obliterating how this species socializes and reproduces. Dating Apps are antithesis to males and females meeting and creating sustainable, healthy adult relationships that produce children, simple as that.

    I change oil for a living. I do not have a degree in psychology or sociology. But if Im smart enough to identify this problem, then you better believe people in power also understand it. Make no mistake, its deliberate and reckless, meant to harm. If not, then I actually am smarter than the people who lead us which is just as scary.

    This is just pointing out one problem, the ridiculous idea of letting women choose from 10s of thousands of men online, letting their sexually dimorphic selection bias screw everything up… But there are other issues with dating apps too, like the ratio of Men outnumbering women on there 2 : 1 …. Or the other functions like having to pay money and having no ability to message. Its insane. Women just use them for FREE sex and free meals.

    #932761
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    Gravel Pit
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    We call it the 80:20 Rule …. 80% of women fvcking only 20% of men. Some people claim it isnt true but I disagree. Infact, I think its more or less EXACTLY correct. Roughly the same number of women, who’ve have 80 plus sexual partners… there is an equal number of men who’ve had fewer than 15 sexual partners. How is this possible? Because women on the whole have sex more, and its usually with a thin slice of men at the top, who have even higher counts of sexual partners.

    Im 34. Ive had about 12 women in my life tops. 10 of them were one time only events. Women my age were reporting numbers to me when I was 27, that they slept with over 80 men … Im sure now, several years later, the counts are over 100 easily. Meanwhile Im still under 15…. Just consider that its a statistical fact that the women whove had over 10 partners are less likely to be mothers, or to be in a marriage longterm. Do you really believe Millennial women are going to have a self replenishing birthrate? No…. this is happening in all 1st world nations.

    #932762
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    Varun
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    I’m 36 no kids and looking for a better way of going about living. All relationships have failed. HELP ME OUT WITH ADVICE PLEASE.

    Dude you’re at a prime position right now. I’m assuming you have a job and at least some savings or maybe a house / apartment to call it your own. You haven’t given much to work with, but I’m assuming you’re feeling dejected because you are estranged from your family maybe? And your past relationships haven’t bore you any fruit. Everything happens for a reason, and I think God has been merciful to have sent you this way.

    I’m guessing you’re still blue-pill, so the only sane thing you can do right now is go to the top of this page, on the top bar, there’s a drop down menu titled “Red Pills”. Click on it, start from “Testimonials” (they’re always the best place to start) and then move on to the other stuff. Everything you need to improve your life is all in there. Watch, learn, understand.

    But don’t blindly believe in what’s been said there….

    Relate. Go out in the real world and test those theories. Search for proof elsewhere to confirm what’s been written there. I think there’ll be many things you’ll be able cross-verify by drawing from your own life experiences.

    This will make you see the truth.

    What you have to understand is that mgtow is not just an ideology, its a way of life, which is based on pure, time tested, scientifically verified and factual truths. So even if you disagree with the core beliefs, I’m sure you will find enough content to give your life a reality check and reclaim your own sovereignty.

    This is by far the best advice I can give you. Good luck.

    Going my own way, one step at a time.

    #932763
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    Gravel Pit
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    The reason I got stuck on MGTOW, how I started …. was I put the Stardusk Compilation on (its like 6 hours of audio) and then I sat there playing xbox listening to it. It made sense

    Ive listened to the entire stardusk compilation about 10 times atleast. You can’t unknow the things you learn.

    Sandman videos from 2013 were the colorful lure that caught my interest, but Stardusk was the hook that snagged me and reeled me in.

    Its not just a red pill (the term has multiple meanings not always meant in a MGTOW sense) but its also a Black Pill revelation when the REALITY of what we’re dealing with as men sinks in. Females are not what we were raised to believe they were, and frankly it hurts like HELL to learn that and accept it. Its not a place of resolution or contentment, on the contrary, its a Bitter revelation that results in “Red Pill Rage” and bursts of misogyny. (Many only see us as that but that is just an early phase) Only then, out of the rubble, does a balanced rounded out MAN emerge who is sovereign and actualized.

    #932769
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    The Black Scorpion
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    1-Live every day to its fullest and life will take care of itself.

    2-There is no way to happiness – happiness is the way.

    3-See top notch escorts.

    The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

    #932779
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    Twist
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    1. Take care of yourself re eating and exercise
    2. Buy a gun and know how to use it
    3. Get a dog and experience love, loyalty and commitment
    4. Read the classics
    5. Get a vasectomy if you are interested in poking
    6. The rest will take care of itself

    Don’t marry.
    Don’t have children.
    Ever.

    #932780
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    Bub
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    “The Red Pill is hard to swallow at first but eventually you’ll be able to walk by a woman trapped in a burning car and just giggle.“ – mgtow.com

    Just rolling down the road

    #932783
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    Twist
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    “The Red Pill is hard to swallow at first but eventually you’ll be able to walk by a woman trapped in a burning car and just giggle.“ – mgtow.com

    That is so cold and callous, Bub. What if it was a nice car?

    #932787
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    Bub
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    Collateral damage. No way to avoid it sometimes…

    Just rolling down the road

    #932789
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    Branched off
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    12815

    The boys are giving good advice here.

    It starts with seeing the positive in yourself. Even make lists if you have to of you capabilities and the good things that happen in your days.

    Then start to take care of yourself. Food, exercise, saving money up and especially time off to relax and think what you want to do with the substantial time left in your life. Get some projects and work on them.

    Get your life sorted and women will circle like wasps around a jam pot and you can enjoy them if you like but you need to also be studying the limits of humanity and seeing what you can reasonably expect from women and from yourself in the rather abnormal circumstances of a liberal infested world with cuckold laws. Steer as well as you can around the minefields.

    Opportunity is so great if you are a single man in good health.

    A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

    #932793
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    ResidentEvil7
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    How can I add to this topic, because everything said here is what I would of said. In fact, I learned some things that I could use. So I’ll just tell you what I think ought to work for you even if it’s already been said:

    No wife
    No kids
    No major debts
    Pursue your hobbies and passions
    Build a man cave or man zones with your favorite treasures and collections
    Save your money for a better home or car
    Stay healthy: eat right, workout and watch workout videos on YouTube
    Stay out of trouble from the law

    https://themanszone.webs.com/

    #932794
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    Handsome Vic
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    I don’t know what a “better way of going about living” means for you.
    But think about what your life would look like embroiled in the family court system.
    An unhappy and ungrateful wife, legal fees, false DV charges, alimony/spousal support, excessive child support…
    How can a man go his own way when the risks of marriage are so high?

    My only advice is to avoid marriage, and relationships that put you at risk of being deemed to be married (common-law, etc).
    Don’t let yourself fall into the honey trap at your age.
    The game is rigged.
    The only way to win, is to not play the game.

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #932797
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    Handsome Vic
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    Oh, another piece of advice for good living:
    Don’t simp

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #932818
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    EG
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    Wrap your willie. It will save your life.

    Let every dollar of these woke companies’ marketing budgets be lost on you as MGTOW

    #932826
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    Swimcat
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    I’ve been widowed for 5 years. I was married 39 years before that. So I’m different than most in this group. I’ve never had a train wreck with women and I want to keep it that way. Since I’ve been single I’ve slept with 13 different women not counting hookers. Trust me it could be a lot more. I’m in good shape and I look younger than I am. I belong to a country club, I have no debt, a paid off house, a home in Florida, and a strong investment portfolio, AND I WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY. I recently turned down a female doctor that I’m seeing when she asked me to move in with her, and she’s got a lot than I do. I could easily have a trophy wife, or a couple of mistresses, or a harem of sugar babies. If I wanted to blow my money away and die broke. Fortunately I’ve got more sense than that. So here’s my advise from a wise old owl.

    If want to be 100 percent safe cut women out your life entirely. Do without sex. I’ve not been willing to do that. You’ll likely grow old alone but you won’t grow old broke.

    If you still want to have a women in your life and you’re willing to risk it, find one that’s older than you and has more money to lose than you. Don’t mess with broke women. Don’t mess with foreign women, and for God sake whatever you do stay away from single mothers. Don’t push sex, but if it does gets sexual use all necessary precaution and above all keep separate residents. Don’t even think about those damnable dating apps.

    If you’re going to go MGTOW, and stick to it, you’ll have to reach the painful decision that you won’t have children and you’ll grow old alone. Marriage and children are more than a risk, it’s a gamble with your very life. I’m lucky. I won at that game. So so many do not.

    #932838
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    Bachelorlifestyle
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    I have all the above I’m not a blue pill I have been through the ringer like twice. Was just looking for great advice and I see it here. Just was wondering where to go from here and I see from the advice above I have the whole world in front of me.

    Me first

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