SIngle Male Discrimination

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  • #757842
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    Skelator
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    Often I go about my business in a friendly way. Not judging people for thier decisions in life. To me this seems a polite way to be and I was raised to mind my own business by my father.

    For the majority of my adult life I have lived under the conspicuous assumptions of others for simply being a single adult male. Sometimes it is said in a passive agressive way or outright offensive in other cases. Usually refered to as blue pill shaming on this forum.

    I am having a much harder time dealing with it now. I have accepted it personally and really dont care what people think of me. Sometimes though when people say things about my personal choices in a derogatory way I want to call them out thier false blue pill choices for happiness. Many are very smug and condescending in pointing out my lack of female companionship.

    I understand that society can only accept male hapiness when using him as a tool for others to manipulate. At least western society. I want to speak my mind when harassed about being single. This would be viewed as abnormal in modern society and I become further astranged from the societal spectrum.

    I would like to hear thoughts and suggestions on confronting blue pill shaming.

    Its really hypocrital in my view. Many don’t seem very happy with wifey but have to rationalize the situation by singling out someone who has made different choices and has other priorites.

    Often I have to pick up the burden of others in relationships at work because I am single. Yet I never call them out on this.

    Quite frequently I am told how lucky I am by some men in relationships. Others seem to have a resentment for me.

    Should I respond with equal resentment to thier shaming techniques? Or ignore them as I always have.

    #757853
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    Grumpy
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    Ironically and statistically the majority of humanity is actually single.
    Most times being in any type of relationship (marriage/common-law/exclusive/dating) is basically still being “single” but have some sort of legal/ethical/moral obligation forced on men exclusively.
    One could say that the same is true for women, however women are not held to the same level of accountability for their responsibilities, obligations, nor do they suffer the same consequences as men.
    Call out anyone who “decides” to attempt to leverage their “relationship status” against your “non relationship” status.
    Its not your problem that they “feel” that their dependents are more important than you, as an individual. Nor is it your issue that they have to “support” others when you dont have that obligation.

    At the end of the day, weak people will try to manipulate anything to their advantage if they can get someone else to do the work for them.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    #757856
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    Awakened
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    Many People are JEALOUS of what they No Longer Possess.

    They have Lost Their freedom, and may Resent that You still Possess yours.

    At this point, shaming is all they have left. Recognize it for what it is, and from whom it is coming from, and just dismiss it.

    You can’t change a Blue pill person’s mindset, and you need to just let them be, and focus on thyself.

    As hard as it may be at times for you, I recommend to just keep walkin away.

    Of course, you may want to walk away smilin and whistlin with a lively lil step as you go.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #757858
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    CUNTHATER
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    Ignore them or simply respond, “I have seen the big picture and know the truths of society.”

    American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

    #757863
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    Skelator
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    Ignore them or simply respond, “I have seen the big picture and know the truths of society.”

    #757878
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    IrishMGHOW
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    Your still looking for that gem in the mountain of rubble. (wink wink)

    Ditch that bitch!

    #757886
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    Untamed
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    Should I respond with equal resentment to thier shaming techniques? Or ignore them as I always have.

    The proper response is stoic dismissal of whatever argument they may present to bash or shame you.
    It comes down to YOUR PERSONAL CHOICE and NO ONE has the right to judge you for something that isn’t hurting you or someone else.

    If you have to tell them something tell them this:
    The rising divorce rates around the world scare the s~~~ out of me. I don’t see “til death do us part” anymore but “til Court does us part” everywhere! Until the marriage rates rise substantially, I cannot put my faith in an institution that has been usurped by the State and is being used to line the pockets of lawyers and the courts with my money.
    As long as divorce exists I cannot take marriage seriously.

    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer.

    #757892
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    Joetech
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    If someone ever gets condescending with me I’ll ask them, “And how many exes do you have?” That usually shuts them up. Hardly anyone my age isn’t divorced.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #757901
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    Freeman_K
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    Single male discrimination is a price you have to pay for choosing freedom. Women loathe single men, they are naturally much more Machiavellian and understand the problem of happy single man as a bad example for their husbanks and pussy monetization scheme. Manginas and blue pillers either envy you or are lost.

    No f~~~s given, but there is an argument to wear a fake wedding ring for job to get the vultures off your neck.

    The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

    #757913
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    Romulus
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    Aren’t we ALL single, really? I mean deep down?

    Or……..if they are together with their spouse or gf, look at him, then at their spouse, then look back at him and say…….Why aren’t you single.

    Drop mic…..

    How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

    #757957
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    Skelator
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    I appreciate the responses. It leaves me with something to contemplate on a Sunday afternoon.
    While I am doing whatever I want to do without asking for permission.

    #757978
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    Doc
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    Who in Their right mind would get involved with a woman.
    Even if you believe NAWALT the divorce rates speak for themselves.

    Even if you don’t marry – it is guaranteed to end badly.

    What’s the point?

    A man in a relationship is sticking a revolver to his head with 4 rounds in a 6 chamber.

    POP.
    It’s gonna happen. It’s gonna happen.

    Remind them of that next time they criticize you.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #757994
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    Anonymous
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    Like this…

    I live my life the way I chose. If thats a problem for you, I really dont care.

    Anything else youd like to discuss?

    Good.

    #757996
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    TheSpice
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    Women loathe single men, they are naturally much more Machiavellian and understand the problem of happy single man as a bad example for their husbanks and pussy monetization scheme.

    This is spot on. My ex-wife hated my single friends and tried to get me to stop talking to them.

    "I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
    "You know it's too late for that."

    #758197
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    RedDawn
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    Take pride in the shaming. If you want them to stop, just keep being sarcastic until they get the idea and give up.

    Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

    #758247
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    Harpo-My-"SON"
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    sportscards wrote:
    I would like to hear thoughts and suggestions on confronting blue pill shaming.

    Always answer a shaming question with a
    shaming question of your own.

    ask them this: “why are you concerning yourself with
    my relationship status?”

    I am happy being single. Why would you tamper with
    my happiness?

    shame on you for being so nosy!!

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #758634
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    Daryll55
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    Blue pillers guys in a marriage or relationship don’t know how bad they have it till the blinders come off.
    My ex did a real good job of making sure my old friends never hung around long; then they stopped coming over completely.

    After my separation, it was 4 months before I figured I could sleep in the middle of the bed rather than on one side. Reality does settle in; but it takes time to get “un-trained”

    What does this have to do with the title subject?
    Well, I believe single men sit on a see-saw in life…… There is on one side Expectation; and on the other Discrimination.
    If you don’t conform; (in this case to the plantation), you are shamed. F**k that ! I say keep your freedom stay enlightened and NFG.

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #759569
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    G-MOW
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    I appreciate the responses. It leaves me with something to contemplate on a Sunday afternoon.
    While I am doing whatever I want to do without asking for permission.

    How you respond is you keep treating them the way you want to be treated.
    “i do not question your status as a married man, please do not question my status as a single man”
    “i keep to myself and stay out of your private life, please return the favor”

    Depending on your mood the answer will vary, but i would encourage a neutral response to any silly comments.
    Or as neutral as you can do on that given day.

    If you wonder why they even care or take a p~~~ at you…
    misery loves company. Some weird form of jealousy i would say.

    #759609
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    Jim01
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    Single male discrimination is a price you have to pay for choosing freedom. Women loathe single men, they are naturally much more Machiavellian and understand the problem of happy single man as a bad example for their husbanks and pussy monetization scheme. Manginas and blue pillers either envy you or are lost.

    No f~~~s given, but there is an argument to wear a fake wedding ring for job to get the vultures off your neck.

    never heard that one before – will be stealing that for future use!

    #760313
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    Steven D. Timm
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    This is a good post on here!

    It is funny thought, because I don’t get shamed much anymore for being single. That pretty much quit for me when I was in my late twenties to early thirties (I am 40 now). I have noticed men my age that are married or even with a girlfriend, see me in a much different light. I have had former shamers come up to me after they got married and divorced and tell me I made the right decision and that they were sorry for having given me a hard time about staying single. In fact, women don’t bat an eye at me being single either. In my experience, I believe most folks by the time they are my age, have more important things to worry about in their life than whether I am single or not.

    When people ask me about marriage, for me, I simply state the truth. The truth is I just have never had any interest in marriage and kids. I tell folks I made that decision for myself a long time ago and it works for me. But, I also tell people I have great respect for men who choose to marry and if that is the lifestyle that works for them, then so be it. Men who get married today with today’s values in place are better men than I! That seems to work for 95% of the people I talk to on the subject. The rest of the 5% don’t want to hear what I have to say and that is ok with me! I just go my own way in either case.

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