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    Anonymous
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    The hardest part about being a man is maintaining frame in private.

    No woman will ever understand this. Many men find this unattainable.

    I make my bed every morning.

    #688474
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    Ghost
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    Whatever your faith, the fact is that you are here. You are alive. Make the most of it.

    #688481
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    NerdTunneler
    NerdTunneler
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    My d**k…

    Kidding…The burden of responsibility is never off our shoulders. We can lighten it but we always have to at least be responsible for our life and then our future…

    I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

    #688505
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    PistolPete
    PistolPete
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    Damn Nerdtunneler beat me to it.

    #688509
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    Doc
    Doc
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    The hardest part about being a man is maintaining frame in private.

    No woman will ever understand this. Many men find this unattainable.

    I make my bed every morning.

    May – there is only one YOU on this earth. You are unique. On top of that you have had your own unique life experience.
    So whether in public or private just be you.
    Make your bed or don’t make your bed. Makes no difference becuse you will crawl into it when tired and it does it’s job just fine.

    I know it ain’t a bout the bed.

    Point is this – expect nothing from yourself. You’ll give it anyway. Think about it.
    It’s what has got you this far. And you are still here.
    Surviving.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #688512
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    NerdTunneler
    NerdTunneler
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    I can look at a video of my child on you tube, and see that she is depressed and angry at her mother and I can do nothing to comfort my child, I can’t tell you brothers how infuriated this makes me.

    I look at the videos, and the comment box is there. she has 0 subscribers, 0 responses. she threw a message in a bottle out into the world, and I picked it up. the comment box is there, and the urge to type my phone number is a pull greater than the ocean tides. I know if I do that I will lose my freedom. I guess we all have a temptation in life that we must resist, this is mine. How sad is it when a video is made, no one comments on it. All I can do is drive up the view counter to show her someone cared enough to find her content. but every time I watch it, the more frustrated I become. Will she understand that it is me running up the views and realize I care, I am out there and I have not abandoned her?

    the no contact order the c~~~ and judge f~~~wit have imposed on me is doing damage to my child. I can see it there on the screen. the evidence is there, and I’m the bad guy?

    God rot the c~~~ who wrecked our lives for a piece of ass she found on f~~~ing facebook. hundreds of thousands of dollars, physical, emotional and psychological pain inflicted because of vagina tingles?

    I pray my children and I can endure the next 32 months. You brothers have told me there will be a day of reckoning, a day when I will be able to see my children again. I believe you are right. I put my faith in God and the collective wisdom and experiences of you all.

    I can’t thank you guys enough.

    I feel so selfish posting this. I know I am not alone. I am not unique, there are thousands of good men and awesome dads who have been shut out of their children’s lives by c~~~s, the courts and police with guns. If you are in that situation, God bless you, brother. We will be strong together. Hold fast.

    I transferred my reply here in case you dont get to check the other thread…

    I feel for you May. I dont have kids but I do want to have someday if possible…I dont know if this is going to help you but you could create a separate gmail…Write to that gmail what you wanted to write to your children. Write your pain to them and send it to that gmail…

    Write to them how you saw one of them and you felt joy. Write how you were thankful to have them…Write how you love and miss them. Write about how was your day and what your struggles are. They may need your voice and experience later in life. When they turn 18…give them that email and password…The timestamps on the email will show that you have been there all along, watching painfully from a distance…That you have never left their side…It will be a long time but hope it will be worth it for you and for your children..Best of luck May 7…

    I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

    #688537
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    Joetech
    joetech
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    May, that ex of yours is still the same woman she was when you left. She’s Chad’s problem now. Her life with him is unfolding the same way your life with her did…right in front of your growing, maturing kids. Some day it could easily be her wondering where they are and complaining to all her friends about how ungrateful her kids are. Our children are only on loan to us. Women can’t handle that. That’s why they have new batches of kids when they hit their forties. So, fatherhood isn’t what it used to be. For us men that simply means the 21st century has arrived. Yeah, it’s hard, and it sucks. I like NerdTunneler’s suggestion. Some day your daughters may want to hear the other side of the story. Now that I’ve rid myself of the mistake that was my former girlfriend the hardest part of being a man? Trying not to knick myself while shaving.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #688572
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    Anonymous
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    I can look at a video of my child on you tube, and see that she is depressed and angry at her mother and I can do nothing to comfort my child, I can’t tell you brothers how infuriated this makes me.

    I look at the videos, and the comment box is there. she has 0 subscribers, 0 responses. she threw a message in a bottle out into the world, and I picked it up. the comment box is there, and the urge to type my phone number is a pull greater than the ocean tides. I know if I do that I will lose my freedom. I guess we all have a temptation in life that we must resist, this is mine. How sad is it when a video is made, no one comments on it. All I can do is drive up the view counter to show her someone cared enough to find her content. but every time I watch it, the more frustrated I become. Will she understand that it is me running up the views and realize I care, I am out there and I have not abandoned her?

    the no contact order the c~~~ and judge f~~~wit have imposed on me is doing damage to my child. I can see it there on the screen. the evidence is there, and I’m the bad guy?

    God rot the c~~~ who wrecked our lives for a piece of ass she found on f~~~ing facebook. hundreds of thousands of dollars, physical, emotional and psychological pain inflicted because of vagina tingles?

    I pray my children and I can endure the next 32 months. You brothers have told me there will be a day of reckoning, a day when I will be able to see my children again. I believe you are right. I put my faith in God and the collective wisdom and experiences of you all.

    I can’t thank you guys enough.

    I feel so selfish posting this. I know I am not alone. I am not unique, there are thousands of good men and awesome dads who have been shut out of their children’s lives by c~~~s, the courts and police with guns. If you are in that situation, God bless you, brother. We will be strong together. Hold fast.

    I transferred my reply here in case you dont get to check the other thread…

    I feel for you May. I dont have kids but I do want to have someday if possible…I dont know if this is going to help you but you could create a separate gmail…Write to that gmail what you wanted to write to your children. Write your pain to them and send it to that gmail…

    Write to them how you saw one of them and you felt joy. Write how you were thankful to have them…Write how you love and miss them. Write about how was your day and what your struggles are. They may need your voice and experience later in life. When they turn 18…give them that email and password…The timestamps on the email will show that you have been there all along, watching painfully from a distance…That you have never left their side…It will be a long time but hope it will be worth it for you and for your children..Best of luck May 7…

    After reading all this bulls~~~ our brother may is going through, and you still want to “father” kids?

    “They say a wise man learn from his own mistakes, but a wiser man learn from others mistakes.”

    Do you believe in unicorns?

    I do!

    They live in the forests, they s~~~ gold, and they pee the best coffee that you can find on Earth.

    #688574
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    Prophet Micah
    Prophet Micah
    Participant
    1982

    They live in the forests, they s~~~ gold, and they pee the best coffee that you can find on Earth.

    Obviously I’ve been spending all my time in the wrong forests…

    You must film this unicorn on your next sighting! A pee and stool sample would also be nice.

    No Wife - No Strife

    #688588
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    Anonymous
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    They live in the forests, they s~~~ gold, and they pee the best coffee that you can find on Earth.

    Obviously I’ve been spending all my time in the wrong forests…

    You must film this unicorn on your next sighting! A pee and stool sample would also be nice.

    Done! I will hunt it down too. Have you ever tasted unicorn meat?

    Delicious…

    #688595
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    Prophet Micah
    Prophet Micah
    Participant
    1982

    Have you ever tasted unicorn meat?

    No sir, but I’ve had basashi. So I’m open to unicorn!

    No Wife - No Strife

    #688637
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    FunInTheSun
    FunInTheSun
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    8603

    Well, I think it’s great that you’re getting your life in order, May 7. It will be a long struggle, but keep doing good things. In the coming years, I hope to hear some good news from you.

    I think what’s hard about being a man is: taking FULL RESPONSIBILITY for our actions—-this is something that many women aren’t able to do. All they have to do is cry, and they’ll get a pardon.

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

    #688890
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    It'sallbs
    It’sallbs
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    The hardest part about being a man is maintaining frame in private.

    No woman will ever understand this. Many men find this unattainable.

    I make my bed every morning.

    True I’ve slipped into having a pint at luncctime everyday since being out of work.

    It’s only been a week and a half-been here before I know how to handle it.

    But it’s true what May says.

    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

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    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
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    2423

    Hardest thing for me was convincing others not to force things upon me.
    The worse thing they have done was criminalize being exclusively private and self sufficient. The UN-civil authorities used force of law to extract tithes to support the mandatory public civil religion called democratic socialism.
    I tossed my social security card on a federal judges bench and named him trustee of that account.
    How hard will my life get now that I refuse to represent the debt slave they created?
    I say they issued the number it belongs to them who created it and all the financial responsibility they attached to it.
    I am refusing to pay for a life Jesus has already died for.
    I refuse to pay tithes to the god of the majority
    socialistic democracy or democratic socialism is the
    mandatory public civil religion.
    It has become an enemy to my christian GOD.

    My life and liberty was not free for sure,
    I can never repay my father unless I am pure
    My life, is his life now, so he is on guard,
    With his help and my faith, nothing will prove hard.
    In Jesus name I pray Amen.

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
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    2423

    who claims enough authority to refuse a gift from heaven?

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #706934
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    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
    Participant
    2423

    hardest part is not being allowed the rights of a man, but still having the responsibility for achieving manly results. Work but with no protection against your compensation being taken. There is no protection in a world of governments who all admit they cannot protect you. They will accept your guns so you cannot protect yourself. Lets turn all logic off and forget good reason.
    The new motto for USA.
    Just kill yourself but do it without creating more work for the public servants their jobs are hard enough.

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #717269
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    Kimmuriel
    Kimmuriel
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    485

    To do the work, fight the battles, win the war, and still get nagged or demanded for small details as if they were as important as the details you have and are currently doing. All without help or thanks

    "You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

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    L. Euler
    L. Euler
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    508

    Dear May 7th,
    Euler here. just read the prior post old thread.
    WOW, keep a diary, of the time in your marriage that you know date time and year of depression. store it preferably on paper away from the net. (ammunition)
    We Canadians don’t carry guns for the most part..but the pen is mightier than the sword.
    A diary of your daughter’s misery produced by the courts lack of compassion for you can be taken to a lawyer ( cc UN human rights complaint) The opposing lawyer will certainly NOT want to hear that you have a diary of a litany of her (mother) “child abuse”… start today, you will soon get visitation or else.
    Wait a bit, document it. Redonculus is correct, you are playing for the long game, save up for a gift. (she’ll need education $ because her mother probably can’t save enough)… guess what.. there is a day of reckoning coming for her.
    L. Euler

    #808743
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    BlackVale
    BlackVale
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    83

    To me the hardest part is knowing what I know. I feel like an alien whenever I am around people. Thats partly because I was raised in solitude and couldn’t have friends. But also hearing the way people describe their lives and their beliefs sometimes are off putting. I had a co-worker once tell me that men are more shallow than women, all they want is a man who will make them feel safe and make them laugh.
    1. There is much more to the shallow/picky dichotomy than he puts on.
    2. That isn’t half of what women want, they want the blood of your firstborn and your soul.
    And seeing all that I missed out on growing up and realizing that it is mostly a lie is hard too. I used to want friends a lot but looking back now, the people I saw who claimed to have friends weren’t really friends. Men have a great gift, the gift of creation, curiosity, and discovery, but also it sometimes bears a great curse: solitude. I am a person who prefers being alone most of the time anyways, but sometimes you want someone else around who isn’t brain dead.

    One thing I can’t stand is the office environment I work in. Questions are framed in the realm of feelings all the time: “Are you comfortable with x? How do you feel about x? etc. etc.” And god everyone seems like they want to force you to talk when you feel there’s no need to.

    But overall the most difficult thing is filling the void. When I first discovered MGTOW, it confirmed a lot. Then I realized that I was half chasing the wild rabbit society placed before me anyways. That removed a purpose that I was able to cling to. It was something I didn’t care much for anyways, but it was a purpose. I still want to make good money, I still want to live prosperous, but I need more than that. A marriage, a kid, a nice car, a nice house, all of that won’t even come close to filling it.

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    Draconic1
    draconic1
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    91

    Finding the inner strength and mental clarity to avoid or at least deflect the many traps out there set for us and to endure in spite of it. Attaining the necessary momentum to have true self-reliance and reach a point of doing WHAT YOU WANT, WHEN YOU WANT!

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