The Main Pitfalls For Men To Avoid

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  • #905081
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    FunInTheSun
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    During the past few years, I’ve found that having very little contact with the human race is a good way to preserve one’s freedom and personal assets. There’s very few people that I can stand to be around (family members and close friends). It seems like everyone else is a foe—they have an agenda to either get something from me or punish me for my existence. I value positive interactions with others as much as anyone else, but when those interactions go negative, the consequences can be horrible. I’ve come up with a list of pitfalls men should try their best to avoid (although you can’t always avoid bad situations, you can try):

    1. Alimony/Palimony.
    2. Child Support Payments.
    3. False accusations (sexual harassment, domestic violence, rape, child abuse).
    4. Physical Conflicts.

    The consequences of being involved with unscrupulous people is costly. You may spend thousands of dollars on legal fees, you may lose your job, and you may go to jail without credible evidence from your accuser. Your freedom, assets, and reputation are at stake, so you must be on guard daily. If your fellow citizens had a moral conscience, and a good sense of the meaning of justice, then you wouldn’t have to worry. But in my American society, and many other first world nations, the goal is to empower women (with positions of authority and other people’s hard-earned money) and enslave/tax men. There’s also an agenda to tax people who are high achievers and give that money to people who have no ambition to get a job, get a pay raise, and get off of welfare.

    When it comes to women: if you want to have a live-in girlfriend, you’re taking a big risk. You may not be able to legally kick her out of your apartment/house if you want to break up with her. There’s all sorts of court judges that will take her side and make you pay her for her loss of residence, the utilities, etc. If get into an argument with your girlfriend and physically push her out of the house that you paid for, that’s “domestic abuse.” She can call the police and kick you out of your own residence. And if you get her pregnant, that’s a real mess. Eighteen years of court-ordered child support payments if the relationship goes sour. When you’re at work or a college campus, you can’t tell sexual jokes around women or do anything that can be interpreted as inappropriate/sexual. Any touching, other than a handshake or a tap on the shoulder, can be interpreted as inappropriate. It is very easy to lose what you’ve gained (college credits, salary, a great reputation) over a false sexual harassment/sexual assault accusation. In some cases, you can lose your enrollment on a college campus or a job without an investigation or any sort of evidence.

    When you make deals with people, you have to get signed contracts. When you invest your money, you invest as much as you can stand to lose. When you go to work: do your job well, respect others, avoid gossip/drama, politely decline discussing controversial subjects (religion, politics, feminism, gender equality, etc.), and quickly get the hell out of there when your shift is over—before they can find a reason to fire you! When you go to a place for entertainment, you should try to walk away from an argument/fight instead of escalating it with name-calling and taunts (especially places that serve alcohol and lack security guards). When you go on a first date, go to a public place with witnesses (video cameras are a plus). Don’t post negative stuff or controversial stuff on social media sites if you can be identified (because your nosy boss could read it and fire you). Avoid being in neighborhoods where there’s a lot of crime. When you’re stopped by the police, act like a POW and give them very little information (A long time ago, the police wanted to protect people. Now they’ll just throw anyone in jail for the sport of it.). If you’re interacting with a person, and your gut feeling is a bad feeling, trust that feeling and be vigilant. In this age of uncertainty, it’s a good idea to have a second income (people get fired for stupid reasons and businesses can fail overnight), investments, and a PLAN B for your life in case PLAN A doesn’t work out. PLAN B should include enough resources to move to another location when you encounter a crisis such as a natural disaster, a riot, etc.

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

    #905086
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    Sandals
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    Great post. In other words, the west is Dead. Time to replace it with something else. In the meantime, we’ll watch it burn.

    #905095
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    Handsome Vic
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    Good advice.

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #905105
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    Awakened
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    AVOID RELATIONSHIP/DATING and you shall save YOURSELF from BIG problems in Life as well as many little ones from day to day.

    If you want your haircut, you go to a barber/stylist and pay him/her.

    If you need medical physical, you go to a doctor and pay him/her.

    If you need your teeth cleaned and a checkup, you go to the dentist and you pay him/her.

    If you need a blow job, you go to a hooker and you pay her.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #905107
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    Knights Templar Rising
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    Great post. In other words, the west is Dead. Time to replace it with something else. In the meantime, we’ll watch it burn.

    F~~~in aye, LET IT BURN!

    Sovereignty above all else.

    #905110
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    Branched off
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    This is good advice.

    Men need to avid making themselves hostage to fortune when it comes to the powers of the state. The state has given a lot of power to women and many of them abuse it. Never place yourself in a position where a woman can use her power to hurt you.

    It is practically impossible to do this because they are everywhere and you have to interact with them but it should be the constant aim.

    Never invest more than a day of pay in a woman. You get title to absolutely nothing. Do not invest in futures with women. You make yourself vulnerable to losing more than you invested.

    A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

    #905111
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    Autolite
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    During the past few years, I’ve found that having very little contact with the human race is a good way to preserve one’s freedom and personal assets.

    I’ve always been pretty much a loner but as I get older I am getting less and less inclined to engage and interact with others. I find that I’m more comfortable not having to deal with people. I’ve been reading about ‘social withdrawal’ and I’m not sure that it is really as bad as they are saying it is. People are a liability more than anything else.

    Not far from me there’s an old guy (living alone) who won’t even answer his door when someone comes knocking. I used to think that that was really weird. I now understand why he is that way. I figure that’ll be me in a few more years…

    #905121
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    Gravel Pit
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    Thanks man. You really spelled it out clear as crystal.

    #905146
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    SpiderHerder
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    I’ve always been pretty much a loner but as I get older I am getting less and less inclined to engage and interact with others. I find that I’m more comfortable not having to deal with people. I’ve been reading about ‘social withdrawal’ and I’m not sure that it is really as bad as they are saying it is. People are a liability more than anything else.
    Not far from me there’s an old guy (living alone) who won’t even answer his door when someone comes knocking. I used to think that that was really weird. I now understand why he is that way. I figure that’ll be me in a few more years…

    Wow. I think I could’ve written that post. Exactly how I feel about social interactions.

    I’m not saying I’m perfect in every way, but usually when there’s a problem in my life, it’s been caused by another person.

    So, I’m ALWAYS better off when “another person” stays away from me.

    #905149
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    EG
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    During the past few years, I’ve found that having very little contact with the human race is a good way to preserve one’s freedom and personal assets.

    I’ve always been pretty much a loner but as I get older I am getting less and less inclined to engage and interact with others. I find that I’m more comfortable not having to deal with people. I’ve been reading about ‘social withdrawal’ and I’m not sure that it is really as bad as they are saying it is. People are a liability more than anything else.
    Not far from me there’s an old guy (living alone) who won’t even answer his door when someone comes knocking. I used to think that that was really weird. I now understand why he is that way. I figure that’ll be me in a few more years…

    I live right in the middle of my city’s party district and I used to work here as a dj. Now, the less I have to see people the better. I schedule myself one day per week where I see or interact with no one (other than online). It’s a blessing to have that recharge-time.

    #905162
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    Autolite
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    I’m not saying I’m perfect in every way, but usually when there’s a problem in my life, it’s been caused by another person.

    So, I’m ALWAYS better off when “another person” stays away from me.

    L’enfer, c’est les autres
    (Hell is other people)

    Jean-Paul Sartre

    #905170
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    Swimcat
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    I follow the Pence rule now. It’s hard, but the further I distance myself from women and sex the easier it is to deal with day to day. I don’t think the women has been born I trust enough any more to be alone with.

    #905173
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    The Black Scorpion
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    People suck until proven otherwise.

    I try to avoid dealing with other people as much as possible, but when I have to, it is always from a position of strength.

    You have to be tough with people or they will f~~~ you over in a heart beat.

    And don’t hold on to relationships of any kind. Once a relationship becomes toxic always walk away.

    The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

    #905176
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    Sandals
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    If you need medical physical, you go to a doctor and pay him/her.

    Hmm… Doctors today, with the exception to surgeons, seem to be nothing more than Merchants of Death.

    #905187
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    FunInTheSun
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    Not far from me there’s an old guy (living alone) who won’t even answer his door when someone comes knocking. I used to think that that was really weird. I now understand why he is that way. I figure that’ll be me in a few more years…

    My ultimate goal is to have a ranch, and a nice financial nest egg. No one will knock on my door and sell me a product or a religion because there will be no door. Just a perimeter fence. My house will be hidden in the trees. And trespassers might get bitten by a dog before they get shot. Most of my days will be spent alone—in peace! Once in a while, I’ll take a drive to visit friends and relatives, and I’ll occasionally go to the nearest city to stock up on supplies.

    Humans used to be easier to deal with, long ago, when they has some common decency. But in the 21st Century, humans have become nasty, hostile creatures. The less I interact with them, the better my mental health will be.

    "I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

    #905191
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    Sandals
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    No one will knock on my door and sell me a product or a religion because there will be no door. Just a perimeter fence. My house will be hidden in the trees. And trespassers might get bitten by a dog before they get shot. Most of my days will be spent alone—in peace!

    That’s exactly where the last conservative justice was when he “just happened” to die with a pillow over his head.

    Don’t get me wrong, that is the ultimate goal. But never fully safe from the matrix zombies.

    #905249
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    Autolite
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    Humans used to be easier to deal with, long ago, when they has some common decency. But in the 21st Century, humans have become nasty, hostile creatures.

    I’m not sure how you’ve reached that conclusion. Humans have always been, throughout our history, particularly violent “nasty, hostile creatures”. Consider things like the ‘dark ages’ and the Inquisition. Humans, off their leash, can be inordinately vile and reprehensible…

    #905269
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    Sidecar
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    Rules:

    1. Don’t get married. That’s easy. You simply never ask.
    2. Don’t cohabitate. Also easy. You don’t ever let her in the door, or even let her know your address. Always at her place. Never at yours.
    3. Don’t procreate. Extremely easy. Get a vasectomy and document the f~~~ out of it.

    Guidelines:

    4. No single mothers. No exceptions.
    5. Don’t hire women.
    6. “This is not a date.”
    7. “Separate checks please.”
    8. “What relationship?”
    9. Get a suit. Wear it.

    And so on.

    Follow these simple rules of thumb and your life will be a lot easier. Break them at your peril.

    #905290
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    Sandals
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    I’m not sure how you’ve reached that conclusion. Humans have always been, throughout our history, particularly violent “nasty, hostile creatures”. Consider things like the ‘dark ages’ and the Inquisition. Humans, off their leash, can be inordinately vile and reprehensible…

    This is true. I think it’s pretty bad today though, because in the old days you had to know your community and had to be somewhat responsible. With computers and mass communication, people can hide and attack from the shadows.

    Also, our air, food, and water is poisoned. This is wrecking havoc on people’s sanity. The entire planet has gone insane. I think its pretty bad now.

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    Gravel Pit
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